Tuesday, August 25, 2009

Weekend at LA 洛杉矶周末

We went to LA this weekend. Stayed at Westin and toured MOCA, "drive through-ed" fashion district, toy disctrict, little Tokyo, and China town. Rudy was amazed at the downtown sight seen and facinated at the escalators. It maybe too early to bring him for museum tours though, as he just points and screems. All museum staff pay highly attention to him (so as to prevent him from lefting his finger prints on any of the art displays --- that was quite hillarious to watch - I can almost picture some funny moves). Disney concernt hall has a really good "curb appeal", yet we have to get ticket first to be able to get in, so we passed. 2nd day we went to Santa Anna. I liked Santa Anna 3rd street and all the walking and shopping there.

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Thursday, July 9, 2009

Rudy's 4th day in daycare幼儿园的第四天

今天是宝宝上幼儿园的第四天。第一天星期一宝宝一点也没有哭,玩得很开心。第二天星期二最后的几分钟内开始哭,大概是因为老师关了灯,让小朋友们都睡觉而宝宝不知道被吓了一跳。第三天星期三我们走后的10-15分钟他开始哭,而且满地打滚,乱蹬乱踢,最后还吐了。第四天就是今天DADDY一离开就哭,但是看老师的报告上讲大概用了10-15分钟来让他平静下来,还玩了一会儿字母游戏和画画。后来就又开始哭了。11点过去接他的时候看见有4,5 个小朋友都哭了,老师们一脸严肃的说他们有链式反应。回到家睡觉很不好,大概是没有安全感吧。

Today is Rudy's 4th day in daycare. He cried. He actually started crying on the end of 2nd day, and cry and throw up on the 3rd day. Today xy dropped him and as soon as daddy left the room, Rudy started crying again. Teacher's report says it took them 10-15 min to calim him down, and he played a little while with find alpabet games, and drawing on the curb. I think he finally realized this is day care and started to have seperation anxiety.

We went home around 11:40 and did our family hand print onto the newly created concrete sitting area.

Monday, July 6, 2009

Rudy's first day in Day Care 果冻的幼儿园生活正式开始了。

Today Rudy officially started his day care life. We went in around 9:30 am and stayed till about 11:30 am. Not long, but there were not even a single tear drop. We left him at almost 10am and came back around 11, then stand outside and watched for 30 min. He was busy playing with all kinds of toys, and refuse to eat (or maybe drink?) anything at all. I was told he had a BM around 10:30 ( but I did not get a report card). I am a little concerned since 1) apparently not that much attention was given to Rudy was I had hoped (well it's his first day! and the other kids were there at least 1 week, or 2 weeks, or even 1 month).
2) Rudy's diaper was quite light when he went home, and there are still some pupu not wiped off
3) He did not eat anything; and of course the teachers won't push him to eat like we do.

So basically he did not drink or eat anything today at daycare, other wise he seemed okay. Don't know how he would react tomorrow? How can I make him drink water at daycare?

果冻的幼儿园生活正式开始了。今天早上我和LG大概9点半不到到的幼儿园,一进门宝宝就东跑西跑的。 我让他给老师问好,他也不理睬。 我们和MISS AMY出去交谈,宝宝也没有反应, 大概是因为MISS MARY在一旁做游戏分散了他的注意力。
我们把RUDY放在那里1个小时的样子,11点回去看,他们已经开始吃饭了。只是别的小朋友都在桌子旁坐着,宝宝却跑到一旁玩滑梯,一个人还玩得很起劲。后来有个老师来把他带到饭桌旁,坐下让他吃饭,他扭头就跑了。

据说上午10点半的样子PUPU了一次,是另外一个班的老师帮着换的尿布。他只是躺下的时候很紧张,别的也都还好。回家后我给他换尿布的时候发现尿布很轻,而且有些PUPU还没有擦干净。于是今天早上一滴眼泪都没有,但是也没有吃饭或者是喝水。明天一定要给老师讲我们不会问要水喝,要给很多次的。

Friday, May 29, 2009

敏感的心灵?A sensitive heart?

Start Wed night, while reading story before bed time, Rudy became very upset when there's "bye-bye" and "Good night". He will suddenly burst into tears and cry sadly. The two books I read were "Elmer's Color" and "Little People". In the Elemer book, last page simply says "The darkest night is black, and shh! Elemer is sleeping". As soon as I turn to this page, Rudy's face became sad and tiny tears drop fall; then I changed the book to "Little People - Benjamine's first day to school"; but we we reach the page where Ben says bye-bye to his mum, Rudy starts crying again. This makes me wonder if he starts to understand "bye"? and if this is the first time he starts to feel sad because of seperation? If I can choose, my dear baby Rudy, I would rather you not have a sensitive heart, since it's always the sensitive one gets hurt most.

爱玛的颜色是小果冻很喜欢的一本书。特别是开头的颜色系列,从头一气读到尾总是豆的他咯咯直笑。这周三晚上开始,我在给果冻宝宝读睡前故事的时候他变得对爱玛的颜色的最后一页很敏感。最后一页是这样说的:“最深的夜是黑色的,嘘,爱玛要睡觉啦。”一听到我说“嘘”,宝宝就撇嘴,然后眼泪就像断了线的项链哗啦啦的流了出来;接着就是很伤心的“哇哇"' 大哭起来。后来我又换了一本书,讲的是小人Benjamine第一天去上学的故事。结果读到Benjamine给妈妈说再见的时候,小果冻就像又勾起了伤心事一样,哇哇大哭起来。是我的果冻宝宝有一颗敏感的心灵吗?还是对Seperation有了一点点的理解?如果可以选择,我亲爱的果冻,我宁愿你迟钝而不是敏感,因为在你未来的人生岁月里,总是敏感的那一个受的痛会多一点。